The
Connection
Code
Code
For Gay Men
Honesty · Vulnerability · Intimacy
A Free App For Gay Men
Over 200 connection questions to play with lovers, dates, friends and solo. Created by a therapist and somatic coach for gay men who want deeper, more authentic connection.
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The Connection Code
What do you love most about being gay?
Melt The Masks
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What's Inside
Seven themed decks plus Lucky Dip, designed to move you from ice breakers to intimacy at whatever pace feels right.
This or That
Light, fun, fast ice breakers to get the energy flowing.
Rapid Fire
Quick questions, 60 seconds each. No time to overthink.
Melt The Masks
Time to get real and share something deeper.
Vulnerability
Honestly, bravely, courageously. The questions that matter most.
The Erotic Self
Desire, fantasy and intimacy, spoken out loud.
Intimacy & Trust
Boundaries, consent and growth in connection.
Lucky Dip
A randomised journey through every deck. Let the cards decide.
Built For
Date nights
Friends groups
Lovers
Workshops
Retreats
Getting to know someone new
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